Let's Celebrate Tradition

Independence Day (4^th July) in the USA this week is said to be the biggest birthday celebration in the world. It commemorates the USA’s adoption of the declaration of independence in 1776, and severing ties with Britain. It is celebrated with barbecues, picnics, parades and fireworks. This got me thinking, how important are traditions in this day and age, how do we celebrate them and more importantly how do we keep them going.

Flowers are an integral part of most traditions. They have always held meaning in cultures throughout history. Traditionally flower garlands in India are worn or given to show respect to an individual or Deity, mark an occasion such as the beginning of a journey, and celebrate anniversaries and weddings. Red roses, spider lilies, frangipani, jasmine, and marigolds (used in wedding garlands) are the most popular flowers used in garlands. Hinduism attaches religious significance to some types of flowers.In my own culture, flowers are given and received with various assumptions behind their meaning. Special considerations should be given to certain types of flowers when giving them as gifts. The idea of color has also held many traditions when coupled with flowers. Consider red roses for Valentine’s Day and from a cultural point of view we know never to send chrysanthemums to Italian customers. In the Ukraine, tradition is that odd number of roses is for happy occasions and even number of roses are for sad occasions (funerals)

In my humble opinion traditions, national, cultural, family or religious are something we should embrace and carry forward.  They have a way of binding us together, giving us a sense of belonging and offer us the opportunity to share. As members of the human race what more do we need!  A solid foundation is required in all relationships that are of value, family, friends, community and business. I have learned that all of these require effort and commitment, and traditions be they thanksgiving, national braai day, Christmas lunch, Easter hunts, watching the FA cup final or sending valentines flowers are the glue that holds these relationships together. They also offer us the opportunity to play and have fun and I for one can always find time for more of these two things.

Written by Jackie West-Evans owner of Country Flowers “Living My Dream”